I'm 25 years old, I live alone, work full time and barely have any friends.
I'm overweight (5ft 1in and 72kg) and havnt had sex in over a year.
I think about hurting myself often.
Ask me anything.
25 y/o loser fem!anon here. Loosing my sanity I feel. AMA
Loosing
Lmao I never claimed to be able to spell, cannot confirm if my puss is loose or not. +I am exclusively drinking water and tea (no sugar) lmao
Would?
They likely just consume more calories than their metabolism expends daily, you don't need to eat sugar to be fat, and you can get fat from any food if you eat enough, including fatty food. I do agree sugar is bad in general but saying you can only get overweight by eating sugar is a flat lie.
Also OP don't hurt yourself, pain always passes
Hey, it specified soft drinks, not any other intake of sugar :]
I'll admit i still eat sugar, but I am getting better I think. I only started trying to loose weight a few months ago. It's slow and steady but sucks knowing I got myself here lmao.
Didn't know about the gut yeast thing tho, neat.
Peak opinion. I feed the ducks on the canal on the way to work. Always makes me smile
Why don't you kill yourself
TITS OR GTFO
Tits or gtfo
Nah fr tho, get friends first. Whatever hobbies you have find a group. Real life people generally dgaf about how fat you are, or at the very least, not nearly as much as you probably do. This place is a very poor example of how real people think and act. Also it's very hard to have the motivation to improve yourself in nearly any way without some sort of positive social interaction, we're social creatures and nearly all of us fail without socialization. Also if you don't really respect yourself that much, I promise you you can find someone to fuck you on a hookup type basis with virtually no effort. Best of luck anon
AMA
What interest do I have in you if you aren't a potential future wife?
Bc killing urself is gay
Enjoy the tiny tits, gooner.
Lmao this gave me a giggle, thanks anon
Thanks surprisingly constructive anon. I'm mostly posting for entertainment whilst I'm bored at work and like being painfully blunt about who I am aha. I do have friends I just don't see them much, I can interact and talk with people at events n thing but don't tend to get further than that.
No... no...
You're not 42, 5'5" and weigh 235 lbs... you don't have it bad, you big baby!
the human who created this thread isn't looking for sex
they want RESPECT
they want companionship
they want a team mate
sex will happen but that's not their goal
you think small and from a perspective of inexperience
Idk man depends how shallow you are
Oops sorry forgot to check my privilege. Guess I'm not allowed to feel sorry for myself just because someone has it worse. Womp womp.
Whilst that is very true anon, I do miss getting dick lmao
sex is irrelevant if you don't like and respect the other human
Which is exactly why I have not gotten any in over a year lmao. I do not disagree, I am just stating it has been a more frequent craving recently.
Shallow
My depth is an endless abyss of despair and lamentation. I hold such an emptiness within me that tore my humanity out as a child, and everyone has abused my weaknesses by taking advantage of me. I am hollow and the void consumes my presence continuously. You misunderstand the optics of why I am skeptical of talking to you entirely. I have been irreparably damaged by person after the next who seemingly only have interest in controlling and painting their own image of a man over me, and not even wanting me to be myself. Do you understand and have you matured your animus? What picture do you paint upon the blank easel? Do you understand that your projection of your ideal partner overimposed a real human will always lead to your own disappointment? Look into the mirror and decide if you are a performer in a play, or a human. All that said what's the point of even trying to get to know someone on Anon Babble?
Nice. Not much on bush but whatever. Would impregnate, post more
also: you need friends, a friend group.
ur actually very attractive
i was a self proclaimed femcel 2 but after i lost weight i got pretty privilege
just do a calorie deficit and go gym also eat ur vitamins and use collagen powder youll thank me eventually :p
im also 25. in the past 4 years i went from being a frequently homeless tweaker that was in and out of jail and jobless to being a mother of 2 that's clean and has a full time job, a husband, and an apartment.
You can change. you just need to have the motivation.
Then I highly recommend you either reach out to try to see your friends more or again, join a hobby based group. Loneliness is the biggest contributor to cyclical thinking and when you already share a common interest it's far easier to have repeat encounters with the same person/people and ultimately make new friends and who knows, you actually have a pretty good body, maybe you'll meet someone who wants to fill that hole too (kek)
Asssss plz??
Your bmi is 30.2
You're technically obese. You can still find someone to fuck you if you hop on tinder.
Inb4 i dont want just a random hookup
The option is still there. You have a free sandwich that you can eat at any moment and yet you'll say you're starving because a beef wellington isn't going to court you and find its way in your guts.
Post proof you're a femanon, faggot
You didn't have to post your own.
Thank you :] Calorie deficit and gym are in progress but I shall get onto vitamins and collagen from. Pretty privelage is wild but good for you.
I'm glad things have changed around for you. I'm deffinately in a better place than I was 2 years ago (in an abusive relationship, heaviest I ever was, not sure what to do) but it's good to have that positive outlook of 'it will get better'. I usually do but it's just one of those days.
You just need the motivation
Helps to have a guy around
cant expect to pull a serious guy if you arent putting any effort into yourself.
when i was at my low point the only men i was pulling was other tweakers twice my age that borderline abused me.
once i got clean and actually started taking hygiene and health seriously i started to find normal guys looking at me.
I was being trite but you're right. You have to be doing a certain kind of thing to attract something similar.
I have never had sex. Kill yourself
even if your chubby its not as big a deal as you think. im chubby from back to back pregnancies and i still managed to pull a decently attractive guy. you just need realistic expectations and to dress nice / clean up nice.
Jesus Christ, you're living life on easy mode and you're still giving up? I'm 6ft 3, fairly beefy/in shape, and haven't had sex in 5 years.
You disgust me, you can have anything you want and here you are bitching and moaning here. You're truly scum and you should end it instead of wallowing in your own sorrow and the attention of these lonely faggots
OP you’re hot please post butthole
Womp womp sounds like a you problem.
Awhh thank you anon <3 you just admitted that you too are a lonely fag for giving me attention.
Tldr; cope :)
WRONG I get pussy better than you'll ever be you dirty attention whore. I'd rather jerk off looking at my asshole in a mirror than give you any sort of satisfaction so you can take it a mile
Don’t worry anon some guys are just fucking sexist because they get no pussy irl, so when someone like you posts online and they’re anonymous they take it out on you. They would never say anything like that to your face
"Don’t worry anon some guys are just fucking desperate because they get no pussy irl, so when someone like you posts online and they’re anonymous they jerk it to you. They would never say anything nice to your face"
Fixed :)
Well congratulations! You have no need to be on my thread then, do you? Enjoy jerking it to your own ass!
it's hilarious honestly, I bet they're so pathetically ashamed that they'd jerk it to someone like me too. Never would admit it in person. Makes it all the more entertaining
WRONG once again, you must have an influx of estrogen clouding your weak mind, better pussy than you waits for me in the real world you ugly bitch
And then he smiled, and proceeded to jerk his cock for 5 hours straight, and went to bed crying. Must feel really tough talking about all the chicks waiting for you "in the real world".
OP, it sounds like you're going through what a lot of mid-twenties are going through. Especially with social isolation in the mix.
I would say, as others mentioned, try to find people to hang out with first. Having fun is important, doesn't have to do with sex and the social time doesn't have to be anything specific.
I'm 28M and I feel like since I started full time work and left uni, it's been so difficult to make new friends who are actually more meaningful than drinking together or smoking together.
The rest will be easier to come if you feel ok with how things are, and just want more. Whereas it sounds like you're unhappy currently.
If you have the money or social support available in your country, I would also not dismiss the idea of therapy, if you're struggling with some thoughts, especially around self harm, or if you find yourself having the answers but unable to follow up with them. It can bring great peace of mind.
All the best <3
First of all, you're hot and I would fuck you until I was hurting.
Second, have you considered finding something to do after work, like a group doing board games, social meetups etc, fuck even if you wanna do kink stuff there is a lot of meetups on things like fetlife
I know there is a lot of those for if you're lonely and need to make friends or even if you started going to the gym if that was of interest to you. I done both and it worked for me, I was super overweight and honestly in the same position as you, now I'm in pretty decent shape, even small things like asking if a friend that you do have nearby wants to go a walk is getting you active and doing something.
I hope you find your way.
How do you find the energy to eat so much? Also what do you eat?
I'm trying to gain weight. Idk how fat people do it. This is not a joke I'm actually asking
First of all, you're hot and I would fuck you until I was hurting.
second that, body shape and tits are a 10, too bad she's fat
stop feeding the attention whore, she's already fat enough. life is easy mode for white western women. she is worthless and disgusting.