im not interested in “fixing” him i want to be so numb to hurt that i can only love him the more he goons to other women. help?
How do i be okay with my bfs porn addiciton
Having access to pornography is a right. You'd understand if you grew up as a boy.
why does it bother you? Does he not fuck you well enough or often enough?
okay
we’re ldr
we’re ldr
so you arent having sex with him and you dont want him to watch porn? Dont you think thats a little selfish? Do you send him enough nudes to statisfy his desires? If not then what do you expect him to do, just have wet dreams?
idk i just get jealous but ik its wrong now do i stop myself
I would say that a story imparts the same message despite the actor playing the role, but a little mermaid that can not swim and a black female hamlet imparted a different message.
i’m english pls
jack off together on a video call? watch porn together?
tits or gtfo
we’re ldr
So you're in a fake relationship?
i don’t enjoy it im too jealous
it’s a s real as can be
This is probably bait, but here we go. No man alive would be into porn if women were more proactive and enthusiastic about getting them off. However with the advent of Feminism, those sheep have been programed not to serve man in any meaningful aspect. So women just sit there and complain about every element of human nature without the benefit of getting anything done. Congratulations on being part of the problem
o feel like i groomed myself into being a pornstar woman but he atill watches it
idiot, he's not gooning to other women, he's gooning of the idea of watching you fuck other dudes.
youre either going to have to accept that he is a sexual being and needs to get off and that he is still with you because he either likes you or cant do any better or you need to move to him and give him the real thing
i don’t think that’s it
yeah you’re so right my ego is hurting us
my ego is hurting us
probably best to just send him nudes everyday and pretend he is solely jacking off to them and let it go
This bullshit influence thread isn't gonna work either. If you republican fucks want people to have relationships and kids you have to actually pay people enough to have relationships and kids.
i know he needs hardcore porn to get off to though. ik it’s not his fault and i feel bad that all men are addicted and i still love him. but it makes me hateful at times
what
Then you'd be married and starting a family.
is complicated
that’s our plan t tho
he doesnt need it, and only 50% of men watch porn, if it really bothers you, then just move on. Youre a girl, you can get a different bf in 10 minutes on tinder
He spends time with you. The porn just satisfies his base instincts. Think of it as a hack to human programming.
You, he chooses to be with because he likes you and wants to be around you.
i don’t want anybody else. that’s why i get so mad and argue with hin. i don’t wanna change him i want to be okay with it
yeah that’s what he tells me ee
And you don't believe him?
unfortunately no
youre never going to be ok with it, its not normal to be, you either have to accept you are not enough or move on and find someone who you are enough for
damn
just tell him "its me or the porn" and see what he chooses
Just be his under-desk cock receptacle every time he watches porn, and he'll never leave you
he will get mad at me for giving an ultimatum that’s toxic and controlling
Porn is better tbh.
that’s why i want me play with it
He would be right, you have dont have the right to control his body.
its not toxic or controlling, if he gets mad at you, better to know now than before you have children with the lose
Not much of a relationship.
Try that again in English.
Talking to yourself like this isn't influential .
He'd be right, I'd dump you on principle of you told me I can't jerk off any more. Maybe you can spin it as a kinky orgasm control game, if he has any submissive inclinations
Make porn for him to goon to. Dumbass
be okay *
he doesnt:/
This is the real answer. Be the porn you want him to fap to. Stretch open those holes and make a PMV out of it for him to goon to
okay i’ll do my best
What kind of whore writes some retarded shit like that? Go find a moving bus to hug.
This is the beginning of an influence campaign to try and shame men for jerking off.
If you jerk off too much you'll go blind, anon.
Yea that.
Based. I wish my gf would make porn for me
I watch a lot of porn, and my girlfriend knows about it, but she doesn't care, because she knows that it's just fantasy.
In the same way she sits on a towel and watches Supernatural, it's fantasy for her, and I certainly don't get upset about that.
Now if he's fucked in the head and pornography has completely warped his view on sexual relationships, and/or he donates half his paycheck to some stupid slut on onlyfans, then you should definitely leave his sorry gooning ass and find someone better.
You might think he's only guy in the world, but he's not. Any guy you do fancy, talk with him for 5 minutes, give him the wiggling eyebrow, and he'll ask you out. You got no idea how easy it is to get a date as a woman.
And I'm proven right. So which politicians are you working for?
I think there may actually be a concern when you're older. Not going blind, but making sure your NO levels stay high enough.
Saying it will make you go blind is completely retarded.
Hey that's a good point. You can set the boundary at He can't spend money on pornography. That's fair.
You're asking a lot of questions I'm afraid.
Reference the old BS that they used to use to keep boys from jerking off
No one gets it
They literally used to tell young boys pre-60s that you'd go blind if you jerked off.
No shit. Everyone's heard that. It's complete BS. However I put forth an actual concern that only effects older individuals. You only have so much NO and your body uses it as a potent anti-inflammatory when you're out of GSH.
If it bothers you because it makes you feel insecure, you have the problem. If it bothers you because he wont shut up about it, or because he cancels plans because he'd rather be looking at porn, he has the problem.
Posting an image from the movie Lolita. This is bait.
Be his porn. All what type of pics/videos he likes then send them out name it together. Imagine how turned on he'd be watching only videos on you two. Dressup. Cosplay. Gonna slutty. Whatever he wants. That's atleast what my wife does. I hardly look at porn anymore
Become bi and goon with him.
all men are addicted
...aaaaand there it is, it took 14 whole minutes to come out!
Is this a temporary long distance relationship? Like, is he stationed somewhere and will eventually return, or you're in school and plan to go back to him?
Never understood the point of these types of relationships unless it's temporary. Have you guys actually met in person?
but it makes me hateful at times
Go to an isolation tank place and float until you gain insight.
it's crazy how dumb you are
you just make the porn for him, it'll all be you that he is gooning to
Whats your problem with it, that its not you? Thats why you are a fucking idiot for having a long distance relationship. Normies are fucking stupid.