I let my 27 year old fiance have sex with a bbc last weekend and now i have immense regret...

i let my 27 year old fiance have sex with a bbc last weekend and now i have immense regret. im 34 and we have been together 6 years, the lack of sex lately was causing us to argue and i stupidly suggested she sees other men for sex if shes not satisfied. I thought it would add some exitement to our lives but now i cant look at her the same way. she recorded the event and obviously i jerked off to it but the post nut shame is now too strong and im tempted to call off our future marriage. every time i look at her or hear her speak the video plays back in my mind. What do bros

is that a screenshot from the video? If so, post the fucking video god damn it

It's time to let her go. She deserves better than some cuck with no balls who gets scared and jealous every time he sees a better man.
Truth is, you'll never look at her the same. You know she knows what she'll be missing if she settles for a pathetic little shit like you. She knows what it means to be sexually satisfied and that you'll never accomplish that because all you care about is you.
Not because you're incapable mind you. But because you're a sad, insecure manchild.

Stop being a crybaby, cuck. Post more pictures of your fiancée finally getting satisfied

not sure about posting full vid just yet my regret is allready enough right now. it was difficult for me to really watch since I wasnt at the hotel with them i couldnt have stopped them even if wanted to

i think your right as much as it pains me to say because even after i saw the way she was with him I realized i can never have that kind of sex with her thats why i think i must leave her

Kek
Supreme Gentleman

Genuinely saw a monkey with a tail fucking a whore girl. That’s why I’m here. Disappointed it’s only a nigger.

lmao

Was the lack of sex because you had less libido than her?
In any case you fucked up, but the relationship was dead or dying anyway.
Time to get a tiny azn or latino replacement, and make sure you don't make her fuck a nigger in front of you this time.
Also post the vid. It'll be cathartic.

im 34 and we have been together 6 years

Who? You and the girl, or you and that negro?

Dump that whore. She failed the test.

Let her know on the way out you don’t mess with no nigger fucking bitches. Tell her she is worth nothing to anyone and that she is subhuman.

Find a new girl. Don’t make the same mistake.

I can’t emphasize enough you need to end it and make sure you press that this is all her fault, she’s the nasty one. Cut off all contact, forever.

You can't un-ring a bell. You might as well watch it with her while she slobs on your knob.

not less libido no but i am not in shape (not fat but chubby) and my dick is average. she would say she’s not feeling up to it often and the few times we did she looks bored the whole time. So feel i wasnt exiting enough for her and i think thats why sex stopped. i would settle for a asian but language barrier

six years is a long time though i feel maybe we can move passed it. she did say she enjoyed the trip when she came home which broke my heart

Find a new girl

what if new girl just make same mistake??

Only thing you can do is fuck other women. Hope you don’t get screwed in the divorce but you are just really in a fucked situation man. Go to gym as well get more fit.

Do not marry her. Leave her as fast as you can. Cancel any contact. She failed the test, this thing's over and done. Settle down alone and enjoy your freedom for a while. When the time comes you will find a better match.

i dont want to really fuck other women though i think maybe i will just stay with my wife and try to move passed it

if i leave her and call of marriage what will i do with my life?? No woman wants me now i am too old

Yeah it’s a bit of time but it’s not as long as the extended misery of being with a gross woman that WILL cheat on you and will inevitably divorce you and really fuck you up.

The well is poisoned. The only good thing about this is it happened before you’re married.

End it before things get worse. Her willingness to bed with a beast should be the biggest reason of all.

YOU can find a better woman.

Do that and I'll guarantee she'll be fucking other men before the year is up

There is so much more in life than women. They're just a part of it. I understand your point of view - but you're stuck in a situation where you do not know how to forget about this incident - if you ever will. It's like a shadow or rainy cloud staying over your relationship.

how will i ever find better women if i have broken confidence and just always remember the time some guy with a bigger dick stole my girl friend though

maybe that is the way it needs to be for her to be really satisfied hmm

You’re 34. You have plenty of time. The worst thing you can do is just settle for a woman with terrible judgment and a toxic personality.

i think maybe all women will fail this test eventually

Depends. Women have poor impulse control, terrible judgment, and no ability to see the long term consequences of their near sighted actions.

However, most women would rather breakup than introduce a third party into the relationship.

Have you considered telling her you want some tighter pussy and because you let her play it’s only fair to let you play as well? See how she’s handles that.

i think she knows im too ugly to get any other pussy and even if i did i dont think she would care that much
for me it’s not about getting tighter pussy either it was about having a good life with her as my wife. i could go fuck a younger girl yes but that girl would probably just cheat on me too so whats the point at the end of the day its just mindless sex and one big meaningless orgy

I have a realistic and radical solution. Actually discuss your bedroom problems with her instead of inviting strangers to invade her nether regions.

Well, if you are not shure what to do, talk to her. Tell her how you feel about this whole thing, just tell her the complete truth. You will see how she reacts, maybe this will help you with the decision.

Also, maybe think about a few hours in partnership-therapy, wich can help you with building the relashionship from this point, or also it helps with ending it if necessary. If you want to do this, and she will not, then you can see that she obviously doesn't care about your feelings.

She didn't cheat, but she was not faithful either. It's clear that you two have no future together, if things stay this way.

Oh and of course, after all this, fuck the therapist anyways.

even just talking about this is making me upset because when the bbc was fucking her she was louder than normal i think because she felt our future together being taken away when he gave her the sex

very believe

Just wanted her to be happy

the thing is we did try to discuss bedroom problem and that is what led to this

Listen - that's not the question for now. You have to make a decision with the situation you are in, not with a future you don't know.

Pathetic.

Do you... need tips on how to please a woman in the bedroom? I know it's a sensitive subject, but you gotta go somewhere. I honestly don't find it difficult. If she's willing to get naked with you, there's some basic stuff that works on most women. A little dirty talk, kissing, rubbing their button. Be a nerd and look up erogenous zones and explore which ones work on her. Or just leave her and start over and don't make the mistake again.

Make sure you get a prenuptial agreement. If shit goes sideways later on you gotta be on top.

Also set hard lines. If you don’t want to fuck another girl then just say that was a one time thing and it is to never happen again, EVER. If she has a problem with that then it’s over.

Your own esteem is putting you in a bad spot. You worry about being ugly and not good enough, she clearly knows this now and is going to abuse you if she doesn’t respect you.

This is an agitation thread, dipshit.

And you are agitated. Mission accomplished.

So she went and spent the night at a hotel with some dude?

thanks for the advice with prenup i will take that on board yes youre right about that. dont know how i will move past this though i really dont
Yep

it wasnt so much a complete stranger. i introduced them some months before when our arguing was at its highest then , then some times she would experiment talking with him on the phone etc and finally she went with him later

Just admit you enjoyed it

I really wouldn't worry about your 27 year old fiance if i were you dude

Why not

call off our future marriage

Yes

Listen mf, discard of this broad, and hit the gym, 35 in male age is still prime, younger bitches will be all on your dick (but only if you hit the gym and use the sadness to your advantage, pushing you to get fit af). Or for the time being you can use her and ruin her by having her fuck many more randos while you see how much more degrading she can get...