Would you date a 8/10 20 year old single mom who has a young kid?

Re-established connections basically. Multiple consulting for television shows was some of the last things done for the youngest ones - couldn't sleep so there wasn't much physical things I could do. Didn't think I'd do that stuff ever again but honestly got so mad at the low-quality shit their grandmother sees on TV one day I figured it was probably the best way to remove a lot of annoyances and get paid. The kids and one grand-kid all got the funds to help them all the way to starting out their adult life. Grandkids father didn't get shit back when so best I can do for him. Their grandmother also really enjoyed some of those shows which is good because I hadn't worked in one of those genre's before at all.

I wish I could find a job, with my depression and social anxiety it is nigh impossible. I don't have any connections because I never had friends. 33 years and unemployed, never had sex. Life is rough.

Have you ever been on a date? Or even kissed?

That does sounds rough. Since I miraculously recovered I really don't even know what I could do now tbh. Doing that work before was really hurting me.
But for you there are some things you can improve by perseverance. It takes a long while, but confronting the anxiety by still trying to do those situations can help you eventually develop some of the skills and coping mechanism to circumnavigate it for when you have to. It's a bitch without a social network though as you easily can be set back from the sheer isolation and have to do the baby-steps all over again. But bro, it's worth it. That anxiety can really drive a weird sense of charisma after a certain point. You can get to a point where you're saying "wow, why am I doing everything right?" because you already learned and rehearsed all the ways to stop how you usually get into pitfalls.
That's all I can think to say for that bro. Hope you can get to that point. It is sublime.

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Not interested in raising children so no

No, never

I'm not raising another mans kid. And there's a definite fucking reason as to why he's not with her anymore. Probably a very good reason. Single moms don't become single moms for no reason, OP.

Do you have a car? Just do DoorDash or Instacart. I did DoorDash for a number of years and was making like $500 a week on top of my disability check.

Thanks mate, you gave me motivation to write a job application. I've been putting it off due to lack of energy

I am working on my drivers license. Finished theoretical test a while ago successfully. Now there are just a few driving lessons left

Great to hear! Keep kicking that depression in face, friend.

33 kissless virgin here and never dated as well

Try to get a job. Bitches love money.

Depends on how hot is the child

I don't think i would date a woman that's young enough to be my daughter.
Also, I don't date, so no.

dated one for over a year, never again

i do have one

Worth it.
Her loli will providing you gap material for decades.. she’s not yours so using her as your fap moppet to her is not incest

Not even is she was 11/10 with a pussy that tasted like cotton candy. I'm not going to clean up another man's mess.

I'm almost 40. I would ravage a 20 year old

Why the fuck do you not already have it? You're a loser, dude. Sorry to fucking tell you this but if you're an American man and don't have your license by 18 MAX, you're a fucking retarded loser. I'm disabled at birth and even I had a full drivers license at 16.

I have like 5 personality disorders dude. I am trying my best.

I already did. Wouldn't recommend it.

I really can't think of a bigger loser than someone needlessly attacking someone who's trying to become better like this. Jesus dude, irony.

So does my retarded cousin. Then take yourself to disability, get free money, and take an uber everywhere. I don't want you on the road with me.

can you explain why, so other avoid the same mistake ?

Not him, but, truth is if you can't spot a red flag that big, no one's gonna be able to convince you to stay away. Youre just gonna have to do it anyway and find out why we said don't and regret you didn't listen.

Tldr 20 years old is a child and having a child, keeping it (like even if pro life, not giving it for adoption or to a family member), and not having the father around raises extremely serious questions about her judgement, mental health, etc. This is a person with impressive emotional weakness and poor decision making skills.
Like at absolute best, the first perfectly normal relationship argument you have she's on reddit telling the story wrong asking of she's being abused

I wouldn’t date anyone with a kid under any circumstances

If she were from a first-world country, I’d totally agree to marry her for the citizenship I’d get eventually. Otherwise, absolutely no way.

date

no

hook up with both of them

hell yeah nigga

As long as her husband died young and honourably

does an autoerotic asphyxiation incident count as honorable?

Why wouldn't it? He died searching for the glorious O

It's the easiest way to get access to a kid, so yes

date sure, if they were both white, wouldn't even consider marrying her unless the kid was hot af

because depending on how close he was when he gave up the ghost, he might have had a dishonorable discharge

Hey earl...?

Yea randy

Do you think god has a toothbrush?

Yes randy, God brushes his teeth.

Good night earl

Goodnight randy

I said to myself a thousand times that I would rather die alone like a dog than be with a woman who had kid(s), and now I like my co-worker who is married and has kids. So yeah, it fucking sucks having those feelings.